Gender Fluidity 101
What does it mean to be “gender-fluid?”
According to the Oxford English Dictionary, gender-fluid means “not clearly or wholly male or female; androgynous; designating a person who does not identify with a single fixed gender; of or relating to a person having or expressing a fluid or unfixed gender identity (now the usual sense)”.
People who identify as gender-fluid often have difficulty acclimating to romance languages like Italian. In English, people of gender-fluid status tend to not fall into the categories of “he,” “she,” “him,” or “her,” often using “they,” “them,” and other pronouns to represent themselves. Unlike the English language, Italian does not have a neutral, or genderless singular pronoun like “they” or “them.” In Italian-speaking communities, drastic changes to language in everyday speech are not always well-accepted, especially because the Italian language would require the creation of a new pronoun.
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